Birth Order Trait

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It seems that every week will be a "MUST" and a routine for us to update our blog.. a new topic and a new issue..Good news is i just got this new topic during the Chinese New Year Holiday!!

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Well after reading the topic, i found that this topic is so interesting and related to all of us.. What do you guys think about the topic??? I really like this topic..For me this topic will help us to reflect back ourselves about our responsibility, our family bond and even our love to the family..

This is what i get from a website, Birth Order Trait

Should i agree with it?? or should not???

My Point of view?? 50% say YES and another 50% say NO

I think the main point of this topic will be environment.. and i will emphasized more on that!!

~ School environment ~

~ House environment ~

~ Working environment ~

Since all these environment is part of growing up and it is related to the child development, so i think the environment will influence the child characteristic and personality..

The first child will be someone that can be a guidance to their brothers and sisters. They will guide them in so many ways. Attitude, education, relationship with others and leadership. Why does the first child have to be a responsible?? This is because they will take care of their brothers and sisters when their family is not home. They have to be someone that is skillful and know how to do house chores too. It can be say that, they have to have a knowledge and know it all. This is what the parents taught them. But it doesn't mean that those who are middle child and youngest child won't have the opportunity to learn it. Sometimes, the parents will treat them equally the same as the first child. Sometimes, the middle child can be someone that can lead the family instead of the first child. Well it depends on the parent's guide, parent's control and also parent's expectation actually. Those who receive more parents guidance and expectation will definitely lead the family.

All these characteristic is not 100% comes from the house environment. We can learn it from the school environment and also the working environment. Each of us has a different school background. Those who perform well will be able to attend the best school. To be a high achiever it actually depends on the skills and their knowledge. To be the best among the best, you must have the knowledge and skills regardless whether you are the first child or middle child.The most important thing is their attitude. A good attitude is a requirement in order to be someone that full of knowledge and skillful. They have to discipline themselves and work hard in getting the knowledge. Each of us have this type of attitude. Attitude doesn't depends on the birth order trait but depend on the individual consideration actually.

Everyone has their own abilities. Their attitude also will be different depends on their abilities. Some of us love to read books, magazines and newspaper. It doesn't relate to the birth order trait at all as long as they have will and love in reading. Hobbies also will be a great influence to the personality. Those who loves jungle-tracking or rock climbing will be someone that love to take risk.

All of us have their own responsibility character. The first child can be someone that full of sense of humor. This character doesn't belong to the last child. This character may be come from the way they communicate with others and the knowledge they have. It doesn't related to any birth trait order.